Mature love and Type-species
In the science of psychology, particularly the humanistic stream, the view that love is actually the person who realizes its potential to be the best, according to the levels of strength. He must accept ourselves as we are first, before he was to give love to others. Someone who does not accept himself, he would spread hatred. Or someone who does not accept myself (lack of), are in love, and helpless in front of her partner, she is developing a neurotic love (love sick). A healthy love is love seeing yourself valuable, and feel have something of value that can be given for the happiness together. If someone already see themselves valuable, she will give birth to a mature love.
Mature love is love that gives with sincerity. If you receive one's love, give love to beat them is the love that is not ripe, or love for lust or love a child (deficiency love). In a mature love, each partner cares one another, to feel responsible towards each other, not just to do his duty, but give with sincerity.
Mature love that includes respect for a partner, have knowledge of the partner. Love is something that is complex compared with merely as a way to relieve sexual tension.
In the application of the humanistic notion, love (Eric Fromm), love can be divided into:
Motherly love (motherly love) --- is entirely one-sided and unequal; mother gives unconditional love, and do not ask for any replies. From this kind of love the child will gain a sense of stability and security. Or in other words "unconditional love".
Brotherly love (brotherly love) --- involves a love for all people, all kinds of people. This kind of love to unite with each other individual in a community (social love). Social love is very important, because humans evolved in social relations and social relations that have developed on the basis of love, to get a healthy social relationships.
Erotic love (erotic love) --- on a single point in depressed individuals, and temporary, and merely a moment of intimacy. In such cases (if the dominant erotic love), individuals can switch from one lover to another lover quickly. People who are only involved only in erotic love, do not experience the real love, but only to satisfy his sexual needs, will be an outlet to relieve sexual anxieties. Is essentially the admiration of something (be beauty, wealth, etc.). If the object of admiration is gone, it can be ascertained, her love going to vanish.
Mature motherly love is love (The love that develops without any conditions), which combines elements of brotherly love and erotic love and accept yourself. Someone should be able to love yourself and have a loyalty to successfully combine love and mature.
Mature love is love that gives with sincerity. If you receive one's love, give love to beat them is the love that is not ripe, or love for lust or love a child (deficiency love). In a mature love, each partner cares one another, to feel responsible towards each other, not just to do his duty, but give with sincerity.
Mature love that includes respect for a partner, have knowledge of the partner. Love is something that is complex compared with merely as a way to relieve sexual tension.
In the application of the humanistic notion, love (Eric Fromm), love can be divided into:
Motherly love (motherly love) --- is entirely one-sided and unequal; mother gives unconditional love, and do not ask for any replies. From this kind of love the child will gain a sense of stability and security. Or in other words "unconditional love".
Brotherly love (brotherly love) --- involves a love for all people, all kinds of people. This kind of love to unite with each other individual in a community (social love). Social love is very important, because humans evolved in social relations and social relations that have developed on the basis of love, to get a healthy social relationships.
Erotic love (erotic love) --- on a single point in depressed individuals, and temporary, and merely a moment of intimacy. In such cases (if the dominant erotic love), individuals can switch from one lover to another lover quickly. People who are only involved only in erotic love, do not experience the real love, but only to satisfy his sexual needs, will be an outlet to relieve sexual anxieties. Is essentially the admiration of something (be beauty, wealth, etc.). If the object of admiration is gone, it can be ascertained, her love going to vanish.
Mature motherly love is love (The love that develops without any conditions), which combines elements of brotherly love and erotic love and accept yourself. Someone should be able to love yourself and have a loyalty to successfully combine love and mature.
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