Love and Pre-marital Sexual Activity
Is there a close connection between love and premarital sexual activity? According to my assumption, very closely related. Apart from sexual intercourse is an accident (unwanted sexual intercourse / rape). Even same-sex love was always like routed as an accident.
Observing cultural change, premarital sexual relations is done by a pair of "lovers" are considered no longer a disgrace. A shift in values that are very extreme. Religious values and culture is clearly rejected, but the culture and religion are no longer able to provide sanctions, because it was considered obsolete. The people who still hold these values are considered as the orthodox, conservative, unwilling to accept the changes.
Is "love" a pair of lovers are always synonymous with sexual intercourse? Psychologically, people who identify love and sexual relationships, are the ones who have "sick" psychologically. Love is a sacrifice, expression of affection, the highest award a human being to another human being. Is sexual intercourse is an insult? Healthy sexual relationships (relationships with bond clear / marriage) is an expression of love itself, as a husband or wife living, and vice versa, and to maintain the respect and appreciation of the marital relationship. He is the element of happiness in a household.
In contrast, if sexual intercourse was done without strong ties (dating). Perhaps here, do not explain how powerful the bond of a "courting" the. She is a fragile bond, and is still limited by cultural values and religion. He is the unofficial relationship, in legal language, the relationship is illegal. Sexual intercourse is done during courtship is an insult (even the victim has always argued it was an accident to cover up the pain / shame), he is not the expression of affection, but the expression of destructive lust. Freud said, he was instinct Thanatos (death instinct).
What distinguishes between sexual relationships because of love or lust? What distinguishes it is the sense of satisfaction (rather than satisfaction at the time of intercourse), but the inner satisfaction that was obtained after doing the activity. There can be no satisfaction in premarital sexual relations, there is only regret, fear, and anxious to receive a disgrace (especially culture and religion is still strong). Maybe it should be noted here that, someone who has frequency of sexual intercourse before marriage, a sense of remorse, and shame were gone, along with changing the view and thinking towards a "sick" psychologically.
Love is a great word. Activities undertaken in the name of love, will give the result is happiness and satisfaction, not regret. He is eros (life), Freud said.
Should have a sick person is treated, rather than spreading the virus of death for reasons of "illness". No one who claims to be mad crazy, if he realize he's crazy, meaning he was cured. If still in good health, keep him, before falling into a deep valley, the valley that there is no way out, except a sincere acceptance of people who are sincere.
Price you're so mean, as expensive as life itself. Live the life with a healthy loving ...
Observing cultural change, premarital sexual relations is done by a pair of "lovers" are considered no longer a disgrace. A shift in values that are very extreme. Religious values and culture is clearly rejected, but the culture and religion are no longer able to provide sanctions, because it was considered obsolete. The people who still hold these values are considered as the orthodox, conservative, unwilling to accept the changes.
Is "love" a pair of lovers are always synonymous with sexual intercourse? Psychologically, people who identify love and sexual relationships, are the ones who have "sick" psychologically. Love is a sacrifice, expression of affection, the highest award a human being to another human being. Is sexual intercourse is an insult? Healthy sexual relationships (relationships with bond clear / marriage) is an expression of love itself, as a husband or wife living, and vice versa, and to maintain the respect and appreciation of the marital relationship. He is the element of happiness in a household.
In contrast, if sexual intercourse was done without strong ties (dating). Perhaps here, do not explain how powerful the bond of a "courting" the. She is a fragile bond, and is still limited by cultural values and religion. He is the unofficial relationship, in legal language, the relationship is illegal. Sexual intercourse is done during courtship is an insult (even the victim has always argued it was an accident to cover up the pain / shame), he is not the expression of affection, but the expression of destructive lust. Freud said, he was instinct Thanatos (death instinct).
What distinguishes between sexual relationships because of love or lust? What distinguishes it is the sense of satisfaction (rather than satisfaction at the time of intercourse), but the inner satisfaction that was obtained after doing the activity. There can be no satisfaction in premarital sexual relations, there is only regret, fear, and anxious to receive a disgrace (especially culture and religion is still strong). Maybe it should be noted here that, someone who has frequency of sexual intercourse before marriage, a sense of remorse, and shame were gone, along with changing the view and thinking towards a "sick" psychologically.
Love is a great word. Activities undertaken in the name of love, will give the result is happiness and satisfaction, not regret. He is eros (life), Freud said.
Should have a sick person is treated, rather than spreading the virus of death for reasons of "illness". No one who claims to be mad crazy, if he realize he's crazy, meaning he was cured. If still in good health, keep him, before falling into a deep valley, the valley that there is no way out, except a sincere acceptance of people who are sincere.
Price you're so mean, as expensive as life itself. Live the life with a healthy loving ...
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