Signs Too Jealous?
Who has not ever jealous? Everyone, even all creatures may never experience it. Is that jealousy is a sign of affection? A question worthy of careful review. Do not until you get stuck with the feeling "jealous". They say, jealous for no apparent reason is the "blind jealousy". After reading this article, you will get a another term, of the word "jealous", how jealous can grow, and other types of jealousy that "healthy".
Before delving more deeply jealous, it is good we make the perception of the word jealousy first. Jealousy is one of the psychological aspect, where the emerging sense of "imbalance" of emotion. Feelings are not balanced to make a person trying to achieve the ideal (equilibrium / balance). Jealousy is one of the wrong type of strain / stress that can make a person become stressed. In normal human life, the strain / stress is needed to stimulate someone to make it better. In the sense of the word, the exam is very important to produce superior human beings. Someone who can not afford the exam, it will be experienced repression or undergo regression (turn back) in the history of his life. Likewise jealous, someone who could accept it as a challenge to do better, and there are people who think it is a destruction (repression), or can not do anything (regression / turn back, behave like children).
When feelings of jealousy come from? He appeared in three categories. First for fear of "losing" something (jealousy basic level). Both because of fear of "unrivaled" (self-esteem is exceeded), the Third because he felt there were "unresolved issues" (jealous for creative people and thinkers).
This time we will only discuss Jealous because of fear of "losing". This is the most basic kind of jealous. In psychoanalytic theory, he is the "id" (basic instincts). Fear experienced by a person at this level have a clear object, can be seen by naked eye. Objects that became the center of jealousy is something very useful and valuable in one's life. Because the object it is worth it, so that a person develops a sense of fear of losing.
There are two types of responses that may arise with this type of jealousy, ie accept or reject (repression or regression and can lead to aggression). In the case of romance / love, we can find out someone is having a positive jealousy (lovable), or the jealousy that can lead to negative things (blind jealousy that causes damage).
Someone who thinks positively will jealousy towards something will accept the reality, while trying to do what is best for the object that is the center of jealousy can fully owned, and could feel safe. Unlike the people who develop negative feelings of jealousy that he would dismiss the fact, he will probably run into repression or regression, or will do the aggression / attack. Case in romance / love, somebody who experienced jealousy negative, response type of behavior shown is likely to save in the liver problems (repression), there are cry (like a child / regression), and within a couple we are also not uncommon to see cases of aggression (attack / fight). Cases this aggression which is the case most experienced couples, both husband and wife are still in the context of courtship.
Jealousy is a negative nature is a rejection (denial) of reality. Response behavior will negatik, blaming outsiders / stimulus which is the cause of the loss of the most valuable objects (love). He did not think that, the release of the most valuable object in his life because of lack of strong holds that object. Like a bird flying tail that previously existed in his hand. He'll blame someone, why the bird is loose, even though he himself is less tightly held.
Maybe you've heard, the case of a mother who killed her three children, because "too fond of his daughter's' (negative), or a husband and wife who previously lived in harmony and mutual hate (denial / rejection), or a pair of lovers who then" drop out ". This is a negative example of jealousy, which develop destructive behaviors.
Not all feelings of jealousy symbolizes love. It could be jealousy hatred goes on when a person develops behavioral denial (rejection) of the events at hand.
Want your jealous is a sign of affection, dealing with problems in a "mature" ...
Before delving more deeply jealous, it is good we make the perception of the word jealousy first. Jealousy is one of the psychological aspect, where the emerging sense of "imbalance" of emotion. Feelings are not balanced to make a person trying to achieve the ideal (equilibrium / balance). Jealousy is one of the wrong type of strain / stress that can make a person become stressed. In normal human life, the strain / stress is needed to stimulate someone to make it better. In the sense of the word, the exam is very important to produce superior human beings. Someone who can not afford the exam, it will be experienced repression or undergo regression (turn back) in the history of his life. Likewise jealous, someone who could accept it as a challenge to do better, and there are people who think it is a destruction (repression), or can not do anything (regression / turn back, behave like children).
When feelings of jealousy come from? He appeared in three categories. First for fear of "losing" something (jealousy basic level). Both because of fear of "unrivaled" (self-esteem is exceeded), the Third because he felt there were "unresolved issues" (jealous for creative people and thinkers).
This time we will only discuss Jealous because of fear of "losing". This is the most basic kind of jealous. In psychoanalytic theory, he is the "id" (basic instincts). Fear experienced by a person at this level have a clear object, can be seen by naked eye. Objects that became the center of jealousy is something very useful and valuable in one's life. Because the object it is worth it, so that a person develops a sense of fear of losing.
There are two types of responses that may arise with this type of jealousy, ie accept or reject (repression or regression and can lead to aggression). In the case of romance / love, we can find out someone is having a positive jealousy (lovable), or the jealousy that can lead to negative things (blind jealousy that causes damage).
Someone who thinks positively will jealousy towards something will accept the reality, while trying to do what is best for the object that is the center of jealousy can fully owned, and could feel safe. Unlike the people who develop negative feelings of jealousy that he would dismiss the fact, he will probably run into repression or regression, or will do the aggression / attack. Case in romance / love, somebody who experienced jealousy negative, response type of behavior shown is likely to save in the liver problems (repression), there are cry (like a child / regression), and within a couple we are also not uncommon to see cases of aggression (attack / fight). Cases this aggression which is the case most experienced couples, both husband and wife are still in the context of courtship.
Jealousy is a negative nature is a rejection (denial) of reality. Response behavior will negatik, blaming outsiders / stimulus which is the cause of the loss of the most valuable objects (love). He did not think that, the release of the most valuable object in his life because of lack of strong holds that object. Like a bird flying tail that previously existed in his hand. He'll blame someone, why the bird is loose, even though he himself is less tightly held.
Maybe you've heard, the case of a mother who killed her three children, because "too fond of his daughter's' (negative), or a husband and wife who previously lived in harmony and mutual hate (denial / rejection), or a pair of lovers who then" drop out ". This is a negative example of jealousy, which develop destructive behaviors.
Not all feelings of jealousy symbolizes love. It could be jealousy hatred goes on when a person develops behavioral denial (rejection) of the events at hand.
Want your jealous is a sign of affection, dealing with problems in a "mature" ...
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