Healthy Relationships

When you were little, usually the parents will limit your interaction with select friends or put you in the group play with certain children they knew and liked. This is done by the parents, so that you get good friends with good family background as well.

Now when you were growing up, yours is the right to determine with whom you will be friends or hang out. Despite all the decisions now in your hands, self-limiting in the association remains to be done. It is intended that you're not one to get along and fall into promiscuity, drug, or other behavioral issues.

Knowingly or not, people who had been close friends with you and have a big role in your life. While still sitting in school, you probably spend more time with friends than with parents and your brothers. Especially for those who came from a broken home and lack of love, have friends the same boat or who are always there for them is what they most need.

This closeness sometimes be bad, especially if they give bad influence on you. Whether it's how to dress, behave or think. The wrong friends, maybe you can change from being diligent, obedient and polite, turned into someone who is lazy, naughty, rebellious, and fall into delinquency, such as promiscuity and drunkenness, as is the case in today's youth . Therefore, limiting relationships are very important in determining the future of your future.

Nevertheless, limiting the association is not always good. Too picky in friendship, sometimes make you a "nerd" or less promiscuity. Less interaction will make you do not grow, because you only hang out with people that's it, or people who type with you. This can affect your ability to socialize with the crowd. And out there, there are still many people with different personalities, abilities and uniqueness that you can sample and use to achieve success in life.

In essence, it was good socially limiting long as you do not shut down to mingle with new people who sometimes do not correspond to yourself. Because the most important is how you filter out the influence of good and bad that they give to you, so as not to fall into delinquency that will just ruin your future.

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